It's time to create

a life and marriage

you're excited about

don't worry friend, I'll show you how

are showing up and handling all the things at home when the military comes calling, but you worry you're doing none of them well

beat yourself up, thinking you should be a better military wife/mom/you

feel like you've tried all the things to improve your marriage, but nothing seems to be working

feel stuck and frustrated when your husband won't read that marriage book or says no to marriage counseling

feel grateful for your husband and your kids (and the steady paycheck and health insurance the military offers), yet you also feel frustrated and disconnected much of the time

want to stand up for something better for you and for your relationship and your family, but are struggling to find your voice to do so with confidence

desperately want to find peace and certainty in your life, but nothing you've tried before feels like it's worked

hey resilient military wife.

Let me guess, you...

My name is Becca.

hey new friend.

I'm a military spouse turned certified life coach and podcaster. I have been married to my Air Force pilot for nearly 15 years and as the daughter of an army officer, I grew up next to one of the biggest army bases in the country. I've been surrounded by the military virtually my entire life.  

A decade and a half in, my husband and I share a connection in our marriage that holds us together, no matter where the military sends him. I wake up each morning, ready to take on the day because I am full of love for myself and my family. And for the life I get to live. My message to you: you can create this for your life too.

.....and let me also tell you, it wasn't always this way for me. Even with my familiarity with military life, the early years of my marriage were a serious struggle. I loved my husband and children deeply, but I was full of self doubt and overwhelm nearly everyday. I thought it was my husband's job to validate me, to prop me up. So, when he didn't - because silly guy, his every waking thought wasn't centered on how to make me feel good. go figure - I suffered. Which made all the other parts of my life feel harder. I was desperate to find a better way to live.  

If you're with me and nodding your head right now - I'm going to take great care of ya. Keep reading, sis.

LET ME HELP.

A group coaching program created for military wives who want life to be better and marriage to be more fun.

I help club members to swap out their overwhelm and self doubt for peace, self love and confidence. Once you do that, you create the life and relationships that you dream of having, and all without your husband having to join in. 

you're invited to join the

i need this

Inside She Thrives, you'll go from

disconnected from your husband 

in love with him and having fun

overwhelmed much of the time

daily peace and joy that sustains you

crippling self doubt, wondering if you can handle it

full of self love, knowing you are strong and resilient in love with him and having fun

fearful of what the future might hold

confident in the good you can create in your future, no matter the circumstance

constantly waiting on others' validation

convinced of your own value and worth (and that of the people around you)

This isn't just me telling you what to do. It's so much more.

She Thrives is the only online group coaching program created specifically for military wives, that offers the exact formula and tools that I have used to completely change my life and the lives of my coaching clients. You can apply the tools I teach to any situation in your life and create the results you want in your life. I'll show you how in my coaching club.  

you want to create the kind of quiet self confidence to face the future with peace and certainty

you want to learn to love and validate yourself so you stop going to bed, hurt and not talking to your husband when he inadvertently disappoints you

you want to develop a strong relationship with yourself, making it easy to show up for yourself and do the things you say you'll do 

you desperately want to learn to parent with peace, especially when you feel like you're doing the lion's share of the parenting in your house

you want to make room in your life and marriage for both of you to thrive

you want to believe amazing and beautiful things about yourself, so you can more easily show up as the best version of you.

It's for you if:

What Clients are Saying

After joining the club and working with Becca, I feel like I am happier. I feel like I have a better way to communicate and connect in my marriage. I know that I am the only one that can control how I feel and what I am thinking. I know that it is hard sometimes to stop and recognize the thoughts right in the moment but we can just stop and take a moment before reacting.

Jessica

member of the she thrives coaching club

With Becca’s help, I was able to see how just by simply changing my thoughts, my entire outlook could shift from one of judgment to one of kindness and love for myself and for my husband. I think Becca’s program is perfect for the military wife who is looking to better her life and marriage and to truly learn how to love and care for herself, her spouse, and her family.

Lauren

member of the she thrives coaching club

member of the she thrives coaching club

I have in the past had struggles finding joy in the present and instead waiting to find it in the future. Before coaching I felt so out of control and that my happiness was in the hands of my husband and circumstances life threw at us. Life is messy and people are imperfect. The thought of working on myself sounded like I just needed to be better at everything. But instead we work on loving ourselves where we are and others where they are.

Monika

member of the she thrives coaching club

member of the she thrives coaching club

The community and support in Becca's club is unparalleled. The environment that Becca creates is a safe, secure, but a vulnerable space where you can be yourself and learn how to improve yourself. Becca is the best coach because not only does she support you and validate everything you feel, but she will call you out and help you figure out how to change your mindset and do the work to have the life you want.

Alison

member of the she thrives coaching club

member of the she thrives coaching club

My biggest breakthrough is realizing that I am in control. I decided that I wanted to love my husband and the only thing I needed to change was my thought process. I’m not perfect at the model but I’m trying and that’s enough. We are all our own persons and it’s perfectly fine to own up to our actions. That’s a first for me—to stop putting unrealistic guidelines on my behaviors and habits. 

Arianna

military wife

Military wife

What's included?

coaching

I offer weekly group coaching calls that you can attend live or watch the replays later. I coach members of the club. You are able to raise your hand for coaching or find shifts in your perspective as you watch others get coached. Both options are powerful and can be life changing, in different ways. I also offer a weekly office hours session where you, along with fellow club members, can come ask questions or get extra help, as needed.

content

community

Each month has a topic of focus, where I'll offer teaching and worksheets to further you in the work of creating a life and marriage you love. Topics will be selected from one of the three pillars of the coaching club: choosing to love yourself and believe amazing things about you, creating a strong connection with your husband, to improve your marriage, and learning to navigate the hard circumstances in your (military) life.

Your membership in the She Thrives Coaching Club also included access to our private facebook group, where you can connect with like minded military wives who understand the struggles that you face, in your life and marriage. Between calls, you can ask for help from me in the facebook group, so you don't have to face your struggles alone.

The skills you learn while in the club can be used to create calm, clarity and peace for the rest of your life, even after your time in the military is over. When you choose to invest in yourself by joining She Thrives, you're giving yourself a gift that you can endless enjoy and benefit from.

but it doesn't end there

$49

MONTHLY

One 1-1 coaching session with me (one time only)

Weekly group coaching call

Weekly office hours session

Exclusive She Thrives Facebook community access, where you can get coaching and ask questions between coaching calls

Cancel anytime

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$490

ANNUALLY

best value

Quarterly 1-1 coaching session with me (four sessions/year)

Weekly group coaching call

Weekly office hours session

Exclusive She Thrives Facebook community access, where you can get coaching and ask questions between coaching calls

$41 per month, billed annually

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Frequently Asked Questions

What kind of time commitment is required when I join the She Thrives Coaching Club?

The best part of this program (besides the amazing transformation you'll make in your life) is the flexibility it allows. While I strongly recommend you prioritize coming to coaching calls live and volunteering for coaching, you can catch up on the replays as your time and schedule allow. The program videos and call replays are all available on the program app, which make listening and catching up on the go very easy. You'll be able to pop your earbuds in and uplevel your life while

Does my husband need to be involved? What if he's deployed right now?

One of my very favorite parts of the coaching club I created is that no one else's participation is required to make the changes you want to make in your life and your relationship. What I teach you inside the program can be applied to your life, no matter what situation you're facing. And whether your husband is home or gone, you'll learn how to create the kind of relationship you want to have with him.

It says "cancel anytime" but is it easy to cancel or will I have to jump through hoops to leave the coaching club?

Once you join the club and start blowing your own mind with the changes you're able to make in your life, you won't want to cancel. But, when you're ready to leave, it's easy and we're committed to keeping it that way. Here's the simple way to cancel:

1. Log in to your PayPal account.
2. Click Settings near the top of the page.
3. Click Payments.
4. Click Manage pre-approved payments.
5. Click Cancel or Cancel automatic billing and follow the instructions.

At any point that you have issues, you can always email hello@beccabrown.com for extra help.  

Can I get individualized support in the She Thrives Coaching Club?

Although the club is a group coaching program, when you join you get a 1-1 coaching session to get you started on your journey. All other calls are group calls and are set up that way to help you the most. You get the opportunity to volunteer to be coached on these calls or to listen in as others get coached. You have an expert coach on your side AND a group of other military spouses, going through the same process of creating the life and marriage they've always wanted. You realize, over and over again, that you are not alone.  

What happens when I need help and there's no coaching call scheduled for that day?

I've got you, friend. When you join the She Thrives Coaching Club, you get access to our private facebook group. Inside the group, you can always post a question or ask for help there. I'm inside the group on most days of the week, and am happy to give you coaching there or answer your questions. Additionally, the group is set up to allow for anonymous posting, so you can get the help you want, even if you feel nervous about posting.

What Clients are Saying

After joining the club and working with Becca, I feel like I am happier. I feel like I have a better way to communicate and connect in my marriage. I know that I am the only one that can control how I feel and what I am thinking. I know that it is hard sometimes to stop and recognize the thoughts right in the moment but we can just stop and take a moment before reacting.

Jessica

member of the she thrives coaching club

With Becca’s help, I was able to see how just by simply changing my thoughts, my entire outlook could shift from one of judgment to one of kindness and love for myself and for my husband. I think Becca’s program is perfect for the military wife who is looking to better her life and marriage and to truly learn how to love and care for herself, her spouse, and her family.

Lauren

member of the she thrives coaching club

I have in the past had struggles finding joy in the present and instead waiting to find it in the future. Before coaching I felt so out of control and that my happiness was in the hands of my husband and circumstances life threw at us. Life is messy and people are imperfect. The thought of working on myself sounded like I just needed to be better at everything. But instead we work on loving ourselves where we are and others where they are.

Monika

member of the she thrives coaching club

The community and support in Becca's club is unparalleled. The environment that Becca creates is a safe, secure, but a vulnerable space where you can be yourself and learn how to improve yourself. Becca is the best coach because not only does she support you and validate everything you feel, but she will call you out and help you figure out how to change your mindset and do the work to have the life you want.

Alison

member of the she thrives coaching club

My biggest breakthrough is realizing that I am in control. I decided that I wanted to love my husband and the only thing I needed to change was my thought process. I’m not perfect at the model but I’m trying and that’s enough. We are all our own persons and it’s perfectly fine to own up to our actions. That’s a first for me—to stop putting unrealistic guidelines on my behaviors and habits. 

Arianna

military wife