yes, i need this

make your marriage better without having to talk about it with your husband 

Helping Military Wives Go From Barely Surviving To Thriving In Your Life and Marriage

I’m Becca – Certified Life Coach + Military Wife

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And I get you. You want a better marriage and a happier life and your husband loves you, but he's not quite getting it? don't worry - i've got you girl

And I'm here to tell ya that I understand that your life as a military wife is challenging.

You’re having to do it all and be it all for your family and kids, all while you are trying not to fall apart yourself.

You feel stuck in a life and marriage that you think could be better (you love that guy but wish it were better with him), feeling overwhelmed and full of self doubt, afraid of what the future might hold.

And worst of all, when you want things to get better, oftentimes the husband can't or won't walk down that road with you, leaving you feeling more stuck than ever.

Create Your Identity On Purpose

you get to decide who you are and then learn to love yourself deeply and have your own back

the simple steps to

Create a Life and Marriage You


build connection with your husband

create a relationship based on love, courage and connection all on your own - I'll show you how


more easily navigate hard circumstances

learn to deal with the hard things that come in military life, with confidence and certainty



What Clients are Saying

After joining the club and working with Becca, I feel like I am happier. I feel like I have a better way to communicate and connect in my marriage. I know that I am the only one that can control how I feel and what I am thinking. I know that it is hard sometimes to stop and recognize the thoughts right in the moment but we can just stop and take a moment before reacting.


member of the she thrives coaching club

With Becca’s help, I was able to see how just by simply changing my thoughts, my entire outlook could shift from one of judgment to one of kindness and love for myself and for my husband. I think Becca’s program is perfect for the military wife who is looking to better her life and marriage and to truly learn how to love and care for herself, her spouse, and her family.


member of the she thrives coaching club

I have in the past had struggles finding joy in the present and instead waiting to find it in the future. Before coaching I felt so out of control and that my happiness was in the hands of my husband and circumstances life threw at us. Life is messy and people are imperfect. The thought of working on myself sounded like I just needed to be better at everything. But instead we work on loving ourselves where we are and others where they are.


member of the she thrives coaching club

The community and support in Becca's club is unparalleled. The environment that Becca creates is a safe, secure, but a vulnerable space where you can be yourself and learn how to improve yourself. Becca is the best coach because not only does she support you and validate everything you feel, but she will call you out and help you figure out how to change your mindset and do the work to have the life you want.


member of the she thrives coaching club

My biggest breakthrough is realizing that I am in control. I decided that I wanted to love my husband and the only thing I needed to change was my thought process. I’m not perfect at the model but I’m trying and that’s enough. We are all our own persons and it’s perfectly fine to own up to our actions. That’s a first for me—to stop putting unrealistic guidelines on my behaviors and habits. 


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show me how

there's no reason to spend any more time in self doubt or overwhelm. i'll show you how to thrive in your military life.

Ready to create a

life you love?